Some people dread another Birthday. Not me. 

Every birthday is a gift. If you don’t celebrate it means you’ve given up! And the alternative is pretty grim. 

This year my birthday is being celebrated in Phnom Penh. Not my favourite city but special this time because we’re here for a great occasion. Pete and Elena’s wedding. 

We started the day in a not so great hotel. I made an unusually silly mistake and when we booked in last night realised I didn’t want to stay there more than 1 night! . By 10am we had selected another one nearby and moved in. The staff are gorgeous. More about that later. 

By midday we were at Pete and Elena’s hotel and it’s a great one – especially for groups. It’s pet friendly and disabled friendly so perfect for all. 

We decided to stay there for lunch. Elena’s Mum from Italy brought beautiful salami, cheeses , prosecco and lemoncello. No wonder we get on! Lucky I speak a little Italian! 

Some of the group swam. 

So we sat and chatted and drank. 

By 4.30 it was time for a little sleep – I am   getting older. 

So back to our hotel – a change into my ‘house dress’ then a knock on the door. 

We are on the ground floor near the pool and they said they needed us in the office. I thought our credit card had bounced ! 

We went around and out came 5 staff members all singing Happy Birthday , carrying a beautiful cake with my name on it! Decorated with Santa and a tree! 

They had seen my birth date on my passport! How sweet! 

What lovely people live here. I’m not thinking about the ba**>| who ran into Peter. But the majority of locals are lovely. 

So now I’m on the bed resting and looking forward to dinner tonight at Lost Room. It’s supposed to be a great place to eat. More fun coming my way. 

Now you know why I love Birthdays 🎉💐🎂🍸🍾💕

Thanks for all the messages. 

I wasn’t sure it would happen but the time has come. We’re off to Cambodia today and it’s a completely different feel to the last trip  on Sept 16th. 

Excitement is mounting both here and in Cambodia. 

My sister Catherine has been to Vietnam and is already in Siem Reap. She met up with Elena and her mum and shared a cocktail or two – warming up for the wedding I think. 

I can’t wait to get there. Pete has been there a week and Elena two weeks. They have been preparing for the wedding – all the little details. 

Over the next two days lots of friends and relatives will be meeting in Phnom Penh to ‘Let the celebrations begin’. 

I’ll keep you posted. 

Weddings bring people together with so much happiness and love.

We saw Pete and Elena overcome more than most people have to face in a lifetime to celebrate their love in marriage. This wedding was to take place in Cambodia ( well the official part was to be in Bangkok ) . But now they  officially married and the blessing and celebration party will be in Cambodia on December 20th.

On Friday we gathered at the Registry office in Brisbane with family and friends to witness them say their very beautifully written vows. Peter’s brother Rob and his lovely partner Jordan were the witnesses and Steve and I were so proud and happy.

We have a beautiful new daughter in law, who has shown such strength and love and we welcome to our family.

Following the ceremony we had a short drinks party at the United Service Club, where Peter was able to visit workmates from when he used to work in the kitchen before moving to Cambodia.

Then it was off to West End to Trudy’s beautiful house where the garden was lit with lanterns, drinks were on ice and food was ready. Not to mention the friends

Peter gave the most wonderful speech thanking the family and friends who helped them prepare this lovely fun party.

The cake was made by Pete’s very good friend Emily, a doctor who could change professions and become a cake baker.

Rob and Jordan are  very happy to welcome Elena to our family.

What a night.

About 8 weeks ago we didn’t think this day would happen. Either in Cambodia and certainly not here in Brisbane. 

Yet here we are ready to see Peter and Elena marry. Not the way they planned but it’s going ahead with great happiness. They are to get married at the registry office at 3.15pm. 

Today was spent delivering things to Trudy’s house. She is a great friend of Peters and offered her lovely cottage house in West Rnd for the wedding celebration. 

Elena has been a lovely calm bride  and is gorgeous to work with as we set up the wedding. 

Check out our flowers! 

In between buying flowers, delivering glasses, food and other items, I drove Pete to his acupuncturist and Steve to the eye hospital. It’s all go. 

But tomorrow it all happens. 

Who doesn’t love a wedding!

Steve and I along with Pete and Elena made a short weekend trip to Canberra for our nephew’s wedding. 

Luke, the groom,  is Steve’s sisters son – a  gorgeous 6ft 5 hunk. We are so happy to see him marry beautiful Nicky. 

Family came from Adelaide and Alice Springs and the weather was kind. 

It was a morning garden party style and was lovely from start to finish. 

The whole family including the bride and groom and their little 13 month old little girl, stayed at the refurbished Kurrajong Hotel,  so we had lots of time to catch up. 

Pete managed very well with the logistics of flying,  a good preparation for his solo trip to Cambodia next month. 

He and Elena took note of lots of ideas for their wedding coming up on Fri 25th. 

We missed having Rob and Jordan with us. They had another wedding to attend on behalf of all the family. Our lovely friend beautiful Melissa married Chris. 

So it was a weekend of weddings. 

We’re all looking forward to Peter and Elena’s wedding in two weeks. 

It’s been awhile since my last post. So much has happened. 
Life is adjusting. Pete is adjusting. He amazes us with his resilience. He scares me with his activities. 

Having Elena by his side is the best tonic to recovery. They have been busy planning their wedding. Or weddings I should say. 

The wedding in Cambodia is going ahead in Dec 20 but the official wedding is happening here at the Brisbane registry office on Nov 25. They had a meeting there last month and got the go ahead to make it official. 

They returned excited. 

The planning started. Peter’s friend Trudy immediately offered to have a celebration party at her house in West End. 

Rehab at RBH has started but seems much more low key than I thought it would. He goes in Monday and sees a Physio who checks the wound, gives him a bandage which gets smaller each time to shape the stump ready for a prosthesis and asks if he’s doing his exercises. 

Pete asked about interrupting rehab by going to Cambodia for his wedding and a final holiday to pack up and say goodbye. The all clear was given so flights were booked. They return towards the end of January. 

His prosthetic leg will be fitted in February by which time the stump will be healed and ready for a new leg. 

New clothes have been bought for the weddings. It was fun to go with El to choose her two dresses. El selected clothes for him so  Pete will look very handsome in his new gear. 

So life goes on. 

I got back from three glorious days at Byron and felt rejuvenated and very grateful to have such beautiful friends. 

Thank you girls for the fun times and the pamper box of goodies. The ‘happy pills’, the hand therapy, the cross to grip when in need, the Moët, the restful candle, the spa voucher…… so many thoughtful gifts. 

As I arrived home we saw El and Peter arriving out of an Uber after having lunch at their favourite Vietnamese restaurant in West End. 

They were happy after the first 2hr Physio session at the RBH. It went well and there is a plan. 

Pete has exercises to do and prepare for his prosthetic. 

He can travel to Cambodia for their wedding. 

Then in the afternoon he and El went with Steve to the marriage registry office to plan their ‘official wedding’ 👰 🎩 

They returned so excited. The date is set. A small official wedding on Nov 25th. 

So by late afternoon Pete was exhausted but happy. 

Going away with girlfriends is always a good idea. 

So this weekend I’m in Byron Bay with my little bookclub girls. We are all friends from years of working as Teacher Librarians. 

It’s just what I need. 

Peter and El are at home. Steve has arrived back from the States and they went out for lunch and probably watched the football. 

We’re staying at a great house on a hill back from the beach opposite Top Shop a very popular coffee shop. 

Today we had a late start and then wandered the leafy streets of Byron checking out the shops and indulging in a little retail therapy. 

A lovely break. 

We had to be up bright and early today. Hard!

Carol the OT was coming to check on things and advise. Bit late I think! 

The day progressed slowly. Pete stretched out resting, eating, dozing, playing on the computer, watching tv and generally trying to divert the mind off the pain. 

I had a coffee with the lovely Patsy and spent some time on the phone talking to people who may be able to help Pete with his phantom pain. 

A lovely doctor who specialises in acupuncture spent quite a lot of time talking to me about his approach to pain management. We’ll visit him next week. 

Then a long conversation with doctor from Adelaide a member of NOI pain management group. He’s going to send information on mirror box therapy. 

No stone unturned. 

This afternoon,  Elena -Peter’s fiancé, did a  conversation class with Ros and myself and we missed Pat. but it was fun. 

If you want a little Italian conversation please contact me. Elena was great. 

Then this evening Peter’s GP, our neighbor, came for a visit. He’s so good and reassuring for Pete,  with the pain he’s experiencing. 

So we’re taking it a day at a time. That way we’ll get there. 

Pete arrived home yesterday. Yah

Friends called around in the afternoon to welcome him back. 

Rob and Jordan came for dinner. 

Our friend and neighbor Bruce Jones is Peter’s GP. He called in for a chat. How lucky are we to have his doctor living so close. 

Lovely to have him home. El is cooking and making him comfortable. 

Here’s to a successful rehab when it starts at RBH in about 2 weeks.

We just need luck and prayers to  keep him safe. 

Today we had a quieter day, catching up on sleep, playing cards and eating home cooked food.